Grief in children – how to support them
Children grieve in waves, moving between sorrow and play.
By age
0–3: sensitive to mood. 4–6: magical thinking. 7–11: fear of own death. 12–18: existential questions.
Speak clearly
Use words like « died » and « dead ». Repeat answers patiently. Guide in the Wegbegleiter app (wegbegleiterapp.com).
Attending the funeral
Informed child may choose freely, with a supportive adult.
When to seek help?
After 3–6 months of persistent symptoms or self-harm signs.
Frequently asked questions
- Can my child attend the funeral?
- Yes, with explanation and free choice.
- When to consult?
- After 3–6 months of persistent symptoms.
Wegbegleiter – the app for difficult moments
The Wegbegleiter app (wegbegleiterapp.com) guides you step by step: checklists, letter templates and an encrypted emergency folder – free to start.